LP Relationship Management: The 2 Frameworks You Need to Build Trust

A while back, my friend Augustine, CEO and founder of Digify, asked me to write something for his company, Digify’s blog, about how I think about maintaining relationships between fundraising cycles when I was still an investor relations professional. As such, I wrote a mini two-part series on the frameworks and tactics I use to maintain LP relationships. Been given the liberty to cross-post on this humble blog of mine, in hopes that it helps any emerging managers or IR professionals here.

Voila, the first of two!


Author’s note [aka me]: My promise to you is that we’ll share advice you’ve likely never heard before. By the time you get to the end of this article, if you’re intimidated, then we’ll have done our job. Because that’s just how much it takes to fight in the same arena as people I’ve personally admired over the years and work to emulate and iterate daily. That said, this won’t be comprehensive, but a compilation of N of 1 practices that hopefully serve as tools in your toolkit. As such, we will be separating this piece into Part 1 and 2. The first of which is about overarching frameworks that govern how I think about managing relationships. The second of which focuses on tactical elements governed by the initial frameworks brought up.

One of the best pieces of advice I got when I started as an investor relations professional was that you never want your first conversation with an allocator to be an ask. To be fair, this piece of advice extends to all areas of life. You never want your long-anticipated catch up with a childhood friend to be about asking for a job. You never want the first interaction with an event sponsor to be one where they force you to subscribe to their product. Similarly, you never want your first meeting with an LP to be one where you ask for money.

And in my years of being both an allocator and the Head of IR (as well as in co-building a community of IR professionals), this extends across regions, across asset classes, and across archetypes of LPs.

So, this begs the question, how do you build and, more importantly, retain rapport with LPs outside of fundraising cycles? The foundation of any successful LP relationship lies in consistent engagement beyond capital asks.

To set the context and before we get into the tactics (i.e. what structured variables to track in your CRM, how often to engage LPs, AGM best practices, etc.), let’s start with two frameworks:

  1. Three hats on the ball
  2. Scientists, celebrities, and magicians

This is something I learned from Rick Zullo, founding partner of Equal Ventures. The saying itself takes its origin from American football. (Yes, I get it; I’m an Americano). And I also realize that football means something completely different for everyone based outside of our stars and stripes. The sport I’m talking about is the one where big muscular dudes run at each other at full force, fighting over a ball shaped like an olive pit. And in this sport, the one thing you learn is that the play isn’t dead unless you have at least three people over the person running the ball. One isn’t enough. Two leaves things to chance. Three is the gamechanger.

The same is true when building relationships with LPs. You should always know at least three people at the institutions that are backing you. You never know when your primary champion will retire, switch roles, go on maternity leave, leave on sabbatical, or get stung by a bee and go into anaphylactic shock. Yes, all the above have happened to people I know. Plus, having more people rooting for you is always good.

Institutions often have high employee turnover rates. CIOs and Heads of Investment cycle through every 7-8 years, if not less. And even if the headcount doesn’t change, LPs, by definition, are generalists. They need to play in multiple asset classes. And venture is the smallest of the small asset classes. It often gets the least attention.

So, having multiple champions root for you and remind each other of something forgotten outside of the deal room helps immensely. Your brand is what people say about you when you’re not in the room. Remind people why they love you. And remind as many as possible, as often as possible. This multi-touch approach is essential for nurturing a robust LP relationship strategy.

My buddy Ian Park told me this when I first became an IR professional. “In IR, there are product specialists and there are relationship managers. Figure out which you’re better at and lean into it.” Since then, he’s luckily also put it into writing. In essence, as an IR professional, you’re either really good at building and maintaining relationships or can teach people about the firm, the craft, the thesis, the portfolio, and the decisions behind them.

To caveat ‘relationship managers,’ I believe there are two kinds: sales and customer success. Sales is really capital formation. How do you build (as opposed to maintain) relationships? How do you win strangers over? This is a topic for another day. For now, we’ll focus on ‘customer success’ later in this piece.

There’s also this equation that I hear a number of Heads of IR and Chief Development Officers use.

track record X differentiation / complexity

I don’t know the origin, but I first heard it from my friends at General Catalyst, so I’ll give them the kudos here.

Everyone at the firm should play a key role influencing at least one of these variables. The operations and portfolio support team should focus on differentiation. The investment partners focus on the track record. Us IR folks focus on complexity. And yes, everyone does help everyone else with their variables as well.

That said, to transpose Ian’s framework to this function, the relationship managers primarily focus on reducing the size of the denominator. Help LPs understand what could be complex about your firm through regular catchups—these touchpoints are crucial for maintaining a strong LP relationship:

  • Why are you increasing the fund size?
  • Why are you diversifying the thesis?
  • How do you address key person risk?
  • Why are you expanding to new asset classes?
  • Are you on an American or European waterfall distribution structure?
  • Why are you missing an independent management company?
  • Who will be the GP if the current one gets hit by a bus?

The product specialists split time between the numerator and the denominator. They spend intimate time in the partnership meetings, and might potentially be involved in the investment committee. Oftentimes, I see product specialists either actively building their own angel track record and/or working their way to become full-time investment partners.

One of my favorite laws of magic by one of my favorite authors, Brandon Sanderson, is his first law: “An author’s ability to solve conflict with magic is directly proportional to how well the reader understands said magic.”

In turn, an IR professional’s ability to get an LP to re-up is directly proportional to how well the LP understands said magic at the firm.

My friend and former Broadway playwright, Michael Roderick, once said, the modern professional specializes in three ways:

  1. The scientist is wired for process. The subject-matter expert. They thrive on the details, the small nuances most others would overlook. They will discover things that revolutionize how the industry works. The passionately curious.
  2. The celebrity. They thrive on building and maintaining relationships. And their superpower is that they can make others feel like celebrities.
  3. The magician thrives on novelty. Looking at old things in new ways – new perspectives. The translator. They’re great at making things click. Turning arcane, esoteric knowledge into something your grandma gets.

The product specialists are the scientists. The relationship managers are the celebrities. But every IR professional, especially as you grow, needs to be a magician.

Going back to the fact that most LPs are generalists, and that most venture firms look extremely similar to each other, you need to be able to describe the magic and your firm’s ‘rules’ for said magic to your grandma.

For the next half, I’ll share some individual tactics I’ve worked into my rotation. Most are not original in nature, but borrowed, inspired, and co-created with fellow IR professionals.


This post was first shared on Digify’s blog, which you can find here.


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Scientists, Celebrities and Magicians

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I was chatting with my new friend, an English-teacher-turned-Broadway-playwright-turned coach, Michael, not too long ago. (Mucho gracias to Brandon who hosts one of my favorite podcasts, for putting us in touch.) In theatre, there’s the idea of the triple threat. Singer. Actor. Dancer. A talented individual is usually all three. But more importantly, not all of their archetypes are created equal.

In a broader sense, but quite synonymously, a triple threat is a permutation of the scientist, celebrity, and magician, which I had to have Michael expand on.

The scientist is the analytical thinker — the subject-matter expert. The scientist loves research, the details, repetitive tasks, logistics and as the name suggests, the science of how things work. Think Tim Ferriss.

The celebrity thrives on relationships and promotion. A true celebrity has the superpower and the willing personality to make others feel like a celebrity. Think Gary V.

The magician is none of the above. They are wired for novelty. What are new ways to do this? What’s a new perspective to approach that? Think Seth Godin.

Every person has some degree of each. But knowing where one excels helps focus your brilliance. Or in Michael’s words, your zone of excellence. Your zone of genius.

Each archetype has their own signature move. The scientist, an intriguing hypothesis. The celebrity, a small crowd who really believe in that individual. The magician, a magic box. Something mysterious and intriguing, and well, something that feels like magic. Which led me to ask, “The celebrity’s signature move seems self-explanatory, but what’s the difference between a scientist’s signature move and a magician’s?”

“The scientist’s doesn’t creative or profound from the outside looking in, but the magician’s almost always feels creative from the layperson’s perspective. The scientist’s signature move is most appreciated by other scientists, astounded by the level of rigor and detail to arrive at such a hypothesis. The magician can wow even the untrained eye and ear.”

Michael goes in a lot more definitional depth in his recent appearance on Brandon’s show, so I won’t belabor the Meriam Webster version of the three archetypes.

That said, to take it a step further in the venture world (’cause that’s how my brain works), we have:

  1. The scientists — the functional operators (i.e. sales, marketing, product, engineering, legal, customer success, finance, etc.), the founders (particularly the founders who had one major exit)
  2. The celebrities — the community builders, the content creators, the event organizers
  3. The magicians — I honestly don’t think the vast majority of venture folks fall in this bucket. Many think they do, but most fall short. The fastest litmus test is to have a pitch meeting with GP, and see how they start the pitch. If they pull up the pitch deck first and walks you through the presentation, they’re almost always not magicians. Most LPs are outsiders. And if a pitch or a fund just feels to similarly to all the other stuff you see, it’s because the GPs pitching are purists. Scientists. True students of the craft, but don’t thrive in low context environments.

Celebrities, at least to me, feel the easiest to tease out. Obvious unique sourcing abilities. Many will argue they can win deals easily, but the truth is, most celebrities in venture write small checks. And when you’re a small checkwriter (sub-$250K), you’re everyone’s friend. Even if you aren’t a celebrity. Availability bias, if I might say so myself.

It’s the equivalent of booking multiple quick coffee meetings on your calendar — hell, even Zoom calls. Short, and can easily fit in busy schedules. So when multiple people want to book Zoom meetings on the same day, it’s doable. You’ll find a way to make it work. But how many dinners will you have? Likely one. So if multiple people want to book you for dinner that same Thursday, you have to pick one. Not two. Not three. Just one.

That one is the equivalent of writing a large check into an oversubscribed round. You’re going to have to squeeze someone else out. And you force the founder to make a decision of if they want you or Sally. Anyways, I digress.

The scientists and magicians are harder to distinguish. May be obvious to most of you smart readers, but this is me in semantics-mode with Michael. The scientist looks like a magician to insiders. A true magician looks like a magician to everyone (especially outsiders). The scientist requires people with high context to fully appreciate their brilliance. The magician requires the bare minimum context.

As such, magicians often have breadth in experience. FYI, being a generalist does not count. Magicians are likely polymaths or polymath candidates. They have some of the most diverse information diets, and are able to string together seemingly disparate thoughts through associative property. Probably did well in grade school algebra. 🙂

And this is my long, elaborate, word-count-filling-high-school-essay way to say… VCs should be magicians or try to be, so that they can help founders to be, because:

  1. VC is a 50-60 year old industry that has seen almost no innovation.
  2. The best lessons around investing and building are often from folks outside of tech.
  3. VCs should stop consuming only tech/startup/VC news.

(Thank you for coming to my TED talk.)

And thank you Michael for the lesson.

4/4/2025 Footnote: When it comes to co-founders, they should ideally excel in archetypes where you don’t but are still complementary AND all co-founders must value and want to grow in the area that you excel in. Otherwise, you’ll have disgruntled co-founders who never feel like you’re pulling your weight. And unspoken expectations lead to quiet resentments.

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